|SUPER AWESOME HANGOUT THAT WE’RE BOTH ENTHUSED ABOUT|
Ben and I have been friends since we took a Spanish class together our sophomore year of high school. One day we added each other on AIM, and the rest is history! We’ve remained close since then despite being told that all friendships fade as you grow older. When we were juniors, we were lucky enough to have had English together, and sat in the back and spent the whole period laughing. We obsessed over Harry Potter and casted spells on our AP Psychology teacher with our pencils (maybe that’s something that shouldn’t be publicly announced, but whatever), and Ben carried my backpack up the steps between classes because I was so out of shape. I remember one day just randomly going to his house and meeting his mom and embarrassing the crap out of him because he had never had a female friend over.
During our senior year we both bonded over not wanting to drink or smoke weed with most of our other friends, and in the summer that followed, Ben stuck by my side and helped distract me from what I considered then as heartbreak. In college we grew apart briefly but it was like old times whenever we got back in touch. He visited me at VCU, and I FINALLY visited him at CMU during my last year. Now that we’re both done with college, and over a year has passed since then, we text daily and keep each other in check when it comes to decision making. All this and he’s on the other side of the country! He’s the only guy in my life, outside of family members, who has been there for me for as long as he has. He’s literally the one person who doesn’t seem to fade; he’s a constant.